You see ... it’s not necessary to be number one ... but to follow your real destiny.
It’s not important to be better than the others ... and compare with them all the time ... but to be a better soul as the one you’ve been yesterday.
... that is the real evolution.
It’s funny having in my life ... kind of a friend that even if he is doing quite well in all his businesses ... and he has about 4 at the moment ... every time i meet him, usually once at 1-2 months ... he’s telling me all kind of stories about people that we know.
That one ... lost his wife that left home, because she is in love with someone else ... that one closed his shop because he was so stupid that in the end was bankrupt ... that friend from the kindergarten lost all he had at the casino etc etc.
In 5 minutes i hear all what happened recently in our area ... and he knows all those details.
I don’t need to ask anyone else about the news ... cause he will inform me with everything.
But my question is ... why he never inform me also about the positive news from our area?! ... cause i am sure that at least something positive is happening from time to time in here.
Why he is so focused on the misery of others?! ... when in fact he is actually a very successful guy ... having a beautiful family, a fancy car, lots of opportunities in his daily life ... and his businesses are running excellent.
Why is he doing that?!
Well ... my dear friend is indeed practicing a non sense behavior.
And even if i see so clear the evolution of his success all the time ... i also see his obsession regarding the misery of the others ... probably as a desire of comparing himself with them ... and see a huge distance between his position and the position of the ones that are in a negative episode of their lives.
Is hard for me to understand this disease of comparing ourselves with the others around us ... and i am sure i have it too ... but i try to cure myself and compare just the me of today ... with the me of yesterday ... hoping that the me from tomorrow will always be a better one.
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