No matter how much we would deny it ... even into the best relationships we could experience ... we still believe that we should change things to our partners.

And ... many express that.

Yes ... we say ... we don't like that ... or that ... or that.

We start considering normal ... saying "Stop doing ... that" ... or "You must ..." like a commander.... which is in fact controlling all around himself.

But we can't stop ourselves doing that.

Somehow ... we do it unconsciously... having the deep desire of redefining our partners ... into a way in how we dream by a long, long time.

And ... we continue having this stupid behaviour, without really understanding ... it's ridiculous all what we are trying to do.

 

.... even pathetic.

But ... we see all ... different.

So ...

Today ... I believe that it's almost impossible to change people.

A jerk ... will remain a jerk.

A liar ... a liar.

A whore ... just a whore.

Fortunately ... the passing of time ... solve most of our problems.

Staying near a person that could accept us .... just as we are ... without criticising us non stop ... but simple shows us new ways of being ... might help.

Most probably ... any partner ... can connect to other types of energies ... and in time ... slowly, slowly ... be different.

I mean ... a much closer version of what we had expected.

So ... change finally appears.

But ... maybe too late.

We've had this illusory concept about a certain type of profile ... which obsessively dominated our minds ... and we've tried so much to dominate and change the partners we have ... that all became actually a story about controlling the behaviour of the other side ... at every single step ....

The relationship itself ... loses into the end its natural charm ... only because we can't stop ourselves ... to change all.

Of course ... a nonsense.

A pathetic ... nonsense.

But ...

 

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